In the first few days following a breakup, getting your ex back is
probably all you can think about. It becomes a mantra playing repeatedly in
your mind. Depending on how long and deeply involved the relationship may have
been, it may be the only thing helping you hold onto a little bit of sanity as
your mind comes to terms with what your heart has already discovered -- the
pain of loss.
It's important to allow a little time to pass before you make your move
and try to get your ex back. Why is that? Because sometimes it's best to gain a
little perspective and distance from the heartache you're feeling right now.
Distance makes it possible for your ex to forgive hurtful words and
deeds, forget pain, and begin to remember the pleasure of being with you.
Allowing time for some of the more pleasant aspects of your relationship to
resurface in the heart and mind of your ex buys the time you really need to
make a positive impression. Unfortunately, you have to want it really bad in
order to do this. It takes a lot of discipline to hold off long enough for the
good memories to come back to life.
That's the problem most people in your shoes have, though. Finding the
patience and strength of will it takes to really let your ex go and wait. Wait,
however long it takes, for your ex to come back to you.
However, there are things you can do to fill your time so that it
doesn't feel like you're waiting around forever for your ex to come back to his
or her senses and realize what a catch you really are.
1.
Get in shape. Whether you wish you were a little more
muscular or want to lose a few extra pounds, there's no time like the present
to get started. Not only will this leave a more attractive package when your ex
does come calling, it's a great way to boost your confidence, restore your
self-esteem, and fill the hours that are no longer devoted to spending time
with your ex.
2.
Go back to school. Even if you aren't going back for a
degree. Many colleges are participating in the open culture of study these
days. You can take classes from Harvard, Yale, and other top universities
throughout the country free online. The knowledge you gain from these courses
is invaluable even if you don't gain a degree. Some programs offer certificates
of completion that can help provide you with greater upward mobility in your
chosen profession.
3.
Focus on activities and interests that lift you up. We all
have areas in our lives where we'd like to see improvement. We all want to be
better than we are in some ways. Now is the perfect chance for you to focus on
being a better YOU!
While you're busy doing all these things, your ex is busy missing you.
More importantly, he or she is hearing, from others, about all the positive
changes you're making. Your ex is sure to want to be a part of the improvements
going on in your life. Now is the time when your ex is most likely to come
calling. Do you know what you're going to say when your ex does?
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